Showing posts with label 2020Books. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 2020Books. Show all posts

January 11, 2021

December 2020 Books

I have had formatting issues by the thousands while trying to write this post. I originally wrote it in Google Docs during a lunch break and the formatting did not come up the way I needed it to because I wanted to show some examples of pages from the books I read. So...I'm making do with this. Just like how we all finished up 2020, kind of dragging to the finish line, these are my last books of 2020. 

They were some good ones, so I knew I didn't want to shortchange this post. I've rewritten it just for you all.



Anxious People by Fredrik Backman

I liked the first 1/3 better than the last 2/3 and it became typically Backman-insufferable toward the end. Look at my review of Beartown to see what I mean by that; he can't just finish a book. He has to spin a wheel of random words and phrases and put them all into the last few chapters. He also splices up pages and chapters with lots of back and forth for no reason at all. 

All in all, I have very strong feelings about his writing because I don't like it. I know that an unpopular take. I would 110% bet something is lost in the translation too. However, I finished the book because I liked the story and he provided enough hooks at the beginning to make me interested.* 

Then I actually bought it for my mom for her birthday because this is the type of story she can appreciate. 

*I was kind of horrified by how horrified all of the characters were at the mere prospect of a gun. For everyone who insists that the U.S. military is too big and costly, this is why: we need to help everyone else in the world who does not feel comfortable with protecting themselves. 

Love Thy Body by Nancy Pearcey

I did a book club for it and I listened to it on Audible+ but this interview the author did with Allie Stuckey is probably worth a listen if you're unsure where to start. 

Let's begin with: I hate the title so much. The narration wasn't great. And even listening to the author speak in interviews wasn't my favorite. However, the information is important. If you're a more liberal or progressive Christian, I recommend it as food for thought. The basic idea is that biology trumps feelings, facts equal biology, and facts outlast feelings. Our physical bodies matter. It's actually very difficult to describe the ideas addressed in the book without offending someone, somewhere, but I don't know...maybe we need to be offended. I needed to be offended at one point and I'm glad I was. Being pushed out of your comfort zone is important sometimes. 

The Postnatal Depletion Cure by Oscar Serrallach 

I could go on about this for awhile. I don't agree with all of it because it gets a little eastern mysticism-ish but I took away a lot. I now add collagen and maca powder to my smoothies, for example. Highly recommend if you are pregnant or postpartum. There are other books out there on this topic too, so I'd pick up at least one if you fall into the categories of being pregnant or having young children!

The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue by V.E. Schwab 

This is the type of world-building I can get behind. There are rules to the book but it's not so cemented in fantasy that I have to envision what the place might look like (i.e. The Hunger Games). There's a fantastical element but it takes place in actual locations. 

Got very interesting toward the end (this was a tome, at 450ish pages), and I think it's perfectly set up for a sequel. 

4 stars

People Like Her by Ellery Lloyd

This is a must for anyone who participates in consuming influencer culture. The beginning was great. The end was weird and, I think, the authors got lazy with it. If they knew where it was going before starting the beginning, I see it. But the beginning was much better than the end. A solid 3 stars and I didn't like the cover.  (Also, trigger warnings should be included and I can tell you what those are if you'd like...don't want to give a lot away in my review.)

Pretty Little Wife by Darby Kane

A thriller. Pulls you in. I enjoyed it. Another where the beginning was also better than the end. It, also, got weird toward the end but I appreciated that it gave you only bits of information at a time and you had to pay attention or you'd miss clues/important plot points. 

3.5 rounded up to 4 stars. 

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So those were my books for December 2020 and that landed me at 54 books for 2020. I'll take it. 

Have you read anything on this list? I have a ton of books reserved at the library in an effort to get 2021 off to a productive start! 

In case you missed my (rather rambly) IG story last week, I am listening to nonfiction this year instead of trying to read it. This shouldn't take away from my physically-read books at all, but will just up my total altogether by the end of the year (if I stick with it). 

Linking up for Show Us Your Books!

December 27, 2020

Favorite Books of 2020

Well. 



Weird year, right? (sorry for font issues in this post...something's off)

And I'm LEGITIMATELY CONFUSED about how Goodreads got 54/48 books

but I have *personally* reviewed this data more than once so

Imma take the win. Their numbers do not match my numbers,

so I will go one step further in 2021: I'm going to Google Sheets to track.


These are my favorites from the year. All are fiction.

I recommend every non-fiction book I read this year as well, but

they are interest-specific, so I’ll link them at the bottom and

you do what you want there. 



The Red Tent- This is an older book, in that it’s definitely not from the last few years, but I got it as a Kindle Daily Deal this past spring. I made it my first 5-star book of 2020 simply because I hadn’t read anything like it before. It’s a fictional retelling of part of Genesis, based on historical accuracies of what life was like at the time. Basically, it takes a chapter of Genesis and blows it up in hundreds of pages of story. I can’t speak to all of its accuracy, but there’s no reason why much of it couldn’t have happened this way. I’m not saying it’s all correct or biblically-sound, but the day-to-day life and presentation of how hard life actually was (especially for women) is eye-opening. 


Such a Fun Age- I truly enjoyed this story. There was a lot of back and forth narrative and character quirks introduced throughout the book; it wasn’t all thrown out there at once. I just thought it was put together very well..


Little Secrets- probably the best thriller I read this year? And I read a lot of thrillers. 


The Vanishing Half- This lived up to the hype. I truly enjoyed this story. 


Jane Doe- So good! That’s all. Just a great read. I described it as a female Dexter. 


When it comes to nonfiction:


Oh Crap! Potty Training could be useful to you,

Blackout is a political book that may change the narrative for the better,

You’re Not Enough is required Christian reading,

and Risen Motherhood was okay, but not a favorite. 


In December, I read two nonfiction books that I'll talk more about in my next

book post...

The Postnatal Depletion Cure is good info if you're in the throes

of baby/toddlerhood.

Love Thy Body is a must for Christians, in my opinion.

It's really hard to explain what it's about but it's an explanation

of sort on why the physical body matters, not just our emotional feelings

about it.


Best book of 2020? What needs to be on

my TBR list for January?


Linking up with Jana and Steph!

December 8, 2020

November Books

Oh Crap! Potty Training by Jamie Glowacki 

I read this in May and then I read it again last month and I've flipped through it like a reference guide many-a-time in the last few weeks. Lots of parents I know have recommended it, from all styles of parenting, so I figured it would be the method to try.

While I was totally on board, Wells broke the mold and went off-book pretty early in the process so I was just left confused (hence the reference guide flipping). 

So, yes. Totally worth a read. But your toddler may be unpredictable so don't use it as a bible of sorts. 

The Night Swim by Megan Goldin 3 stars

This wasn't great. Initially, I thought it'd be like Sadie, but Sadie was way more compelling. In this case, I did not like the narrator. She came off as a Sarah Koenig rip-off. And those podcast excerpts were ridiculous...was that the whole episode? I mean, they just read like intros. I can't imagine subscribing to a podcast that gives me three minutes of information a week or something. Rachel was just unlikeable. There was also something weird about Pete being stuck in the hospital. I don't know. Clearly, I finished it but I wasn't impressed. 

Currently, I'm reading...all of these. I just can't stick with/enjoy one book:



The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue by V.E. Schwab 1/3 of the way through

Love Thy Body by Nancy Pearcy 1/3 of the way through (audio)

Anxious People by Fredrik Backman 50% through


And then my progress for 2020 so far...

I don’t know why I don’t just keep lists in Google Docs for everything. It’d make life a lot easier when it comes to counting up books in November. Every year for the last several years, I’ve found myself painstakingly clicking through my blog posts and keeping a tally sheet on scrap paper in front of me. For an organized person, I’m not *actually* that organized. 


My goal this year was 48 books because I read 47 last year but many of those were audiobooks so I physically read more in 2020 than in 2019. In 2019, I struggled to just sit with a book (paper or kindle) and read. In 2020, I did a lot of sitting and reading when I could’ve been cleaning or organizing or watching TV. I started to just consider it valuable time well-spent in a way I hadn’t in a few years. 


Toward the end of 2020, I began to realize that I’m an auditory learner. It’s why I like podcasts so much. I get a lot out of listening to someone explain to me. I downloaded Audible again and decided that my fiction reading was going to be hard-copy and my non-fiction could be audio. Reading nonfiction feels like a lot of work for me right now, so listening to it is a productive use of time.

My count for the year so far... 43 fiction - 3 DNF + 4 Nonfiction = 44 out of 48 books completed. 

               Fiction

  1. The Night Swim

  2. The Mall (DNF)

  3. The Vanishing Half

  4. Jane Doe

  5. One to Watch

  6. Home Before Dark

  7. Pretty Things

  8. The Guest List

  9. The Unraveling of Cassidy Holmes

  10. Oona Out of Order (DNF)

  11. Her Every Fear

  12. It Ends With Us (DNF)

  13. Final Girls

  14. The Last Flight

  15. Lock Every Door

  16. The Last Time I Lied

  17. The Red Tent

  18. A Good Marriage

  19. Tell Me Three Things

  20. Invisible Girl

  21. The Wives

  22. This Won’t End Well

  23. Eight Perfect Murders

  24. Little Secrets

  25. If I Never Met You

  26. I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter

  27. The Holdout

  28. The List of Things That Will Not Change

  29. In Five Years

  30. Long Bright River

  31. The Other Mrs. 

  32. The Dilemma

  33. Such a Fun Age

  34. Dear Edward

  35. Regretting You

  36. The Marriage Lie

  37. Dead to Her

  38. You Are Not Alone

  39. The Family Next Door

  40. Husband Material

  41. Mrs. Everything

  42. The Other Woman

  43. Dear Wife


            Non-Fiction
  1. Oh Crap! Potty Training

  2. Blackout

  3. You’re Not Enough (and that’s okay)

  4. Risen Motherhood.


      How is your year-end reading goal shaping up?

      Linking up with Jana and Steph!

      November 10, 2020

      October Books

      In Summary: Every Book I Read This Month Was a 5-Star Book. 

      It was actually a pretty quiet October, on the reading front. I've been simultaneously reading a few books, currently, that I'm just not motivated to speed through. 

      Concerning the books below, I read the two fiction books in a single weekend (different weekends, obvi), and the nonfiction was one I read throughout the month while I had breaks at work. 

      I also spent any free time at home re-reading a potty training book. Can that count toward my non-fiction for the year? LOL I've read it twice in 2020. 


      Jane Doe by Victoria Helen Stone

      I could. not. put. this. book. down. It was so good! I grabbed it as an ebook deal probably 6 months ago because someone recommended it on IG and I just left it on my Kindle unread because library holds were constant and consistent. I was looking for a quick read a few weekends ago and it was less than 300 pages, so it fit my need. 

      I really did read it in one day. I mean, it wasn't perfect, but it was so good and fascinating. Almost like a less-murder-y female version of Dexter. I already have the sequel on my TBR list. 


      Blackout by Candace Owens

      A must-read. I didn't find the portions about the latest news happening in 2020 to be as poignant as the information about the earlier 20th century. I definitely was able to fill in some knowledge gaps. I'd love to hear more from Candace's grandfather. He sounds like such a truly wise man. 

      The Vanishing Half by Brit Bennett

      This was actually a perfect pairing for Blackout, if you like matching your fiction with nonfiction. I couldn't put it down. I gave it 5 stars without question. I was the only person around who didn't like The Mothers (the main character really bothered me with her wishy-washiness, if I remember correctly). That's why I was hesitant to try this one. It was so good though, and fascinating because you could see the problems from all angles and the choices the characters were making were never easy ones and always led them down an un-returnable path, if that makes sense. 

      And then a Did Not Finish:

      It wasn't that I didn't want to read it. It really did pull me in at first, but then it started to lose me because YA is one of those genres where I just don't "get" the attraction. 

      Right now, I have Anxious People, The Night Swim, and Mexican Gothic on my shelf, ready to read. I also need to do a count/review of what I read this year to see how many I need to read in the next two months to hit my 2020 Reading goal. I generally have DNFs mixed into my Goodreads, so the number there is rarely accurate and I have to do a manual count. Exciting, right? 

      Linking up with Jana and Steph!

      October 12, 2020

      September Books


      Such a Fun Age by Kiley Reid 5 stars

      I really enjoyed this book. It was awkward and cringe-y and heartbreaking at times. The whole thing...just a really good book. Wholly, totally recommend. I, personally, found it to be about race and class but definitely more about class because money seemed to be the deciding factor in the narrative after the first chapter or so. Thoughts? 



      Home Before Dark by Riley Sager 4.5 stars

      I rarely read scary books and this was a cross between a thriller and a horror book, in my opinion. It was quite creepy. It'd be great for fall, if you're into that kind of thing. 

      I find all of Riley Sager's books enjoyable, more or less, so I don't know where I'd rank it but definitely better than average. 



      Little Secrets by Jennifer Hillier 5 stars

      Ugh. This book wrecked me. I shouldn't be surprised because Jar of Hearts did the same awful thing a year and a half ago. While this book wasn't all-in-all perfect, it was very well done and I can't help but give it 5 stars. I read it in 2-3 days and it was a pretty long and involved story. The end was interesting but the first half was what made it gut-wrenching. 

      Her books need to come with all the warning labels. 


      Pretty Things by Janelle Brown 4 stars

      This was fascinating. It was a *little* slow to start and didn't move quickly at all...it was close to 500 pages if I recollect, so it took me about a week. But it was a really solid story. I liked the writing style of the back and forth and just the way she put sentences together; her voice was great, especially building in the background stories. 




      One to Watch by Kate Stayman-London 2.75 stars

      I really enjoyed the first 30% of this book. Then I was invested so I kept going. Then I wasn't crazy about the last 30%. All in all, it was fine. I listened to the interview Reality Steve did with the author awhile back and that was more interesting than the actual book. I was considering giving it 4 stars during the first chunk of reading and then it started to dwindle and I lost interest. 

      The Holdout by Graham Moore 3 stars

      This was a legal thriller of sorts. It was fine. I did find it hard to keep the characters organized because there were a lot and lots of POVs, often switching each chapter. The beginning hooked me but it wasn't ah-maz-ing, as it didn't get better with time. 


      The Stranger in the Lake by Kimberly Belle DNF

      I wanted to like this and I tried. I got to like 43%? And I just didn't care enough to keep going. I really liked Dear Wife back in January, so I had high hopes for this. It was just boring. I hated the flashbacks and the main character wasn't quite interesting enough. This can get thrown into the category of "boring thriller". 

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      And then I read an entire book on Saturday because I couldn't put it down but that'll have to wait for next month's post! I'm also in the process of reworking my 2020 reading goals (I don't even feel like counting up the books at this moment) because I feel that I'm much better at listening to nonfiction than reading it. I might save my nonfiction TBR for 2021 and go back to Audible for a few months. I'm 100% an auditory learner. 

      What are you reading???

      Linking up with Jana and Steph!

      September 8, 2020

      August Books.

      I finished 4 books in August. I finished two more last week and I'm halfway through another right now.  You're just going to get the August books on here today, but you can follow me in real time on Instagram. 

      And, since I'm a big believer in working smarter, not harder, I'm going to repost my Instagram captions here...simply because I give some pretty detailed thoughts there anyway. 

      Finally, because most of what I read is pretty prone to spoilers, I don't accidentally want to give anything away. So going with what I've already said is probably best!

      So...You can zoom in? Or go to my IG

      The Unraveling of Cassidy Holmes by Elissa R. Sloan 4 stars

      It wasn't bad at all. I could see how it's definitely this author's first book. I rather enjoyed it. It was terribly sad in a lot of ways. There's not much to say other than it's a fictional biopic of an early 2000s pop group. 



      You're Not Enough (and that's okay): Escaping the Toxic Culture of Self-Love by Allie Beth Stuckey 5 stars

      This bolded intro on Goodreads *kind of* says it all: 



      I have so much I could rattle on about here. The basics: If you're a Christian, you need to read this book. This message is life-changing. It was a turning point for me. As a new mom, who had no idea what I was supposed to do and where I was supposed to go and how I was supposed to live (we moved 3 times in two years...my kid's entire life has been nothing but moving back and forth across the country), I needed to hear something truthful. This was it because it's not just my truth or a truth, it's the truth. It's much easier to believe in the Gospel than it is to try to make my own way. It was a harsh dose of tough love when I didn't want it but I needed it. 



      The caption kind of says it all. Don't go in knowing anything. It's pretty solid. 

      The Guest List by Lucy Foley 3 stars

      This was good enough. I wasn't blown away but I thought it was well-written. I wanted to see illustrations, to be honest. The setting sounded beautiful but I had trouble visualizing. 

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      All in all, I'm in a good place, reading-wise. What's the best book you read last month? 

      Linking up!

      Life According to Steph

      August 11, 2020

      July Books



      In Five Years by Rebecca Serle 4 stars

      I waited for months upon months for this from the library. Everyone loved it, which made me nervous because that's a lot of pressure (see: Dear Edward). 
      I must say, it didn't disappoint. I thought it was thoughtful and true-to-life in many ways. I said on Instagram that I was ALL IN until about 80% and then it started to lose me. It took a couple of twists and I think I just wanted the ending to be different. No spoilers here. 

      I did like the writing, though, and the way the book was put together. 



      This was a DNF for me. I didn't mind it at first, but then In Five Years came in from the library and since I'd been waiting for close to 6 months for In Five Years, I read that first.
      By the time I got back to Oona, I was deeply disappointed that it wasn't great...I liked the premise, but it just..meh. There was a time-travel element that was kind of fun but I wasn't nearly as invested as I had been in In Five Years. They were kind of similar in a weird way. 



      This was fine. Definitely not my favorite of his. I don't really care about classic mysteries. Not even a little bit. So the themes didn't speak to me. Also, had vibes of You. 




      I thought this was a fast-moving thriller in many ways. I also disliked the main character. In my opinion, this was better than An Anonymous Girl and not as good as The Wife in Between. It was solid and kept me reading. I like their writing style. But I also was districted by the absolute haplessness of the main character.




      I liked this. It was a thriller and kept me guessing.  Like I said on Instagram, I just like Peter Swanson's writing. This wasn't my favorite of his (I think All the Beautiful Lies is my favorite), but this was much better than Eight Perfect Murders.




      This was a disappointment. I didn't expect to love it because it seemed like everyone loved it and...my M.O. is to not love the most popular books. It was just so sad and the narrative seemed to skim the surface a lot of the time. 
      This is a "me" issue but I hate air travel because I get airsick, so just being in a narrative that takes place on a plane gave me a headache. So it wasn't super enjoyable. 
      I finished it mostly because I kept waiting for something to happen. Nope. 

      Currently reading:


      Part of my 2020 reading goal was to read a non-fiction book each month. That hasn't been happening, which is kind of a disappointment? But also, I have non-fiction books sitting on my shelf and mean to get to them but I don't. I do intend to read all of them by the end of the year so maybe it'll even out to 12 books by then. I do have a few requested from the library, so I will likely read those as they come in. 

      But, other than that, my reading goal for the year was only 48 (I can usually do between 50-75 a year, depending), so this was low expectations for me. You can follow my books in real time HERE

      Right now, I'm 31 books in, and only 2 have been non-fiction. I'll see what I can do with those numbers. 
      I am reading the entire Bible this year so, if I finish it, that'll add an extra "book" (LOL, right?) and add onto my non-fiction total. 

      I generally don't get hung up on the numbers until November, so I figured I'd start keeping track to be better prepared. 

      Something different I'm doing this year is that I'm doing absolutely no audiobooks...not because I think they're not books but because I just don't like them anymore?

      Do you notice a change in your reading habits in 2020? 


      Linking up with Jana and Steph!

      July 14, 2020

      June Books 2020 + halfway point progress



      Usually, I cut myself off at the end of each month and write my book post. Anything that starts on the first of the month or after goes into the next month's post. But, since I was in the middle of 2-3 books at the beginning of July, I decided to finish them up and put them into this post. Because by the time August rolls around, it'll seem like a decade had passed since I read them. 

      In the last month, I've read exclusively thrillers, with one more literary book thrown in...whatever keeps me reading and keeps my interest level high is my strategy right now. 
      But you'll also see that I had the same types of reviews for many of these: I'm starting to see through the writing process for thrillers. They're getting to be predictable in their writing. The plot isn't always predictable, but the common ways the author tries to "get" you are wearing on me. Maybe next month I'll try a different genre? 

      The Last Time I Lied by Riley Sager
      This was my first BOTM. When you sign up, you're able to choose any book from the backlog. This was from July 2018. 
      This wasn't a bad book. It took me an embarrassingly long time to finish it, though. The first 1/3 moved ridiculously slow. The second 1/3 was a lot of back and forth. The last 1/3 paid off. 
      It's a thriller. It has some twists and turns. It's almost YA-esque. I didn't dislike it but it's not my favorite of Riley Sager's. 

      This was a BOTM selection. It was a thriller of sorts and you didn't know exactly where you were on the timeline with one of the narrators. I really liked Claire's portion of the story; Eva's was harder to get behind. And there was a twist near-ish to the end that wasn't believable and seemed too perfect. 
      But I did think it was a good story.

      Another BOTM.
      I didn't like Reconstructing Amelia at all because the format was weird. Since authors generally stick to what they know, I was hesitant with this one because of the author's name. The premise sounded interesting though. I like legal thrillers in all formats. 
      The format was 100 times better than Reconstructing Amelia. The story was interesting. The characters were all incredibly unlikeable though. There were no redeeming characteristics and there was kind of a lot thrown into the mixing bowl of plot that just didn't have to be in there. 
      I felt bad for the kid. 
      And Amanda too. 
      I didn't really see the end wrapping up the way it did but, like I said, she threw in so. many. plot devices that it didn't shock and awe me. 
      A good enough story. Would make a decent movie. 

      This was pretty good. Parts were a bit predictable and typical of psychological thrillers. I didn't see all of it coming. But there was a LOT thrown in toward the end...kind of like a soup of thriller tropes. 

      I waited quite a while to get this from the library. It was a psychological thriller in the sense that the narrator thinks she's going insane. I really liked the first half. The second half was odd. Almost like the author used up her craft in the first half and ran out of steam. 
      However, she used the same few phrases over and over again and this bothered me. An editor could've helped. There was an odd theme about how terrible men are, when in fact there's only one man in the book. Maybe that guy is just terrible. Plus, the end was weird. 
      I don't not recommend it. Just don't expect too much. I expected a lot because I think I was the last person to read it. 


      I simultaneously loved and hated this. I don't want to talk spoilers where everyone can read them. Overall, I loved it. At first, I almost quit around 18% because it starts off verrrrry slowly. It did start to pick up and, at some point, I started to care about Mickey. She was really hard to like. Like, she actively makes you dislike her and wonder if she's a real person.
      I would classify this as a cross between The Wire and Shameless. 

      Did not finish: 

      I don't even remember the specifics of this now, because I quit it about 15% in...I thought it would be better? But no. Shallow characters. It turned from promising in the first chapter into bad boy reform/rom-com/main character has a gay best friend who serves no other purpose other than to give sage advice (I haaaaaaaaaate the trope of the gay best friend who only is there to give advice. Give them depth or take them out.)
      I think I'm done with CH. 


      6 months into 2020:


      My goal was 48 books in 2020 since I read 47 in 2019. 

      My counting may be off (I'm not doing a Goodreads deep-dive at this second) but I've read 26 and I've quit...a handful... ...I'll double-check this...

      No audiobooks. I can't do that medium anymore. It's like that was reserved for Colorado and it's not for me now.

      Also, I think I'm supposed to be reading nonfiction this year...that was a goal but I can't remember if I posted about it. 
      I've read a few, for sure, but I need to get on that this fall. I listen to so many nonfiction podcasts that fiction books are more my thing right now. 


      And if you're just skimming to the bottom here :)...The best plot was The Last Flight, the best constructed and the best writing was Long Bright River. 

      Linking up with Jana and Steph! And for Quick Lit with MMD!