January 24, 2025

Friday things. 1/24

 

This podcast episode is insane. It made me rethink everything I thought I knew. Give it a listen. 


I was cleaning Wells' room the other night and finally threw away the Hatch. It stopped working the way I wanted it to months ago but still had a little bit of functionality. (It doesn't help that Wells took a pen to it, and everything else in his room, and wrote his name). But it served us very well for 6 1/2 years so it was a great investment.

LETRS unit 7 out of 8. Almost done. I don't mind going to the trainings. The teachers are good. I've learned a lot that I apply every day. I just cannot stand the busywork aspect. It's 24 college credits of work over 2 school years and that's completely unfair. 

I need all of this Chiefs stuff to disappear. 

We ordered this, to kind of replace the Hatch. It was very worth it. 


I went to an actual mall the other day for the first time in 5 years. I had to go to Kay's and so I just walked the whole place, to see what stores were there. I hadn't been to *this* mall since 2013 and hadn't been to an indoor mall since Pittsburgh in 2020. So...
It was jam-packed.
I used to be in the mall once a week as a teen or college student.
It's amazing what online shopping has done to our culture.
But this mall is also 90 minutes away so it's not like it does me much good on the regular...
Deep thoughts.


She convinced me to move her kitchen to *the* kitchen so we're doing this now. 


All the spring clothes and shoes are out.  I went to Walmart to get Sutton some pants because she's outgrown everything pant-like in the last 2 weeks. They have no pants because "retail seasons" or whatever. (I ordered a bunch from Carter's on clearance.)

But I took this at the mall because I really like these sandals for her. Spring shoes stress me out. Anyone else? I'm so much more comfortable pulling out the same winter shoes each year. Buying sandals is always hit or miss. (These are too big but I'm thinking I could find something similar for her...you know, *online*.)




Finally, again:



January 22, 2025

Grievances and wins: Customer Service


1. You know how Biden was supposed to write some sort of edict about being able to cancel subscription services with one click? I have been fighting with Chewy for yearsss. You can't actually cancel things altogether (and that account has come in handy before when we needed prescription meds mid-move), so I just keep delaying orders by 6 months. Along with that, we began using Pet Flow a few years ago for dog food because it's cheaper and they don't put rainbow bandanas all over the pets on their site a month or two out of the year. However, they will not let you cancel. There is no way to do it on the site. You have to call. No one answers the phone. Scott has been trying to cancel our account for over a year. We started buying our food locally to support smaller businesses and have no need for Pet Flow. Finally, Scott just  canceled the credit card and they're emailing him every day saying they need an updated number. He literally canceled the card and got a new one so they would stop hassling him. That is the state of customer service in this country. 

So, if Biden could actually do something about that, he'll go out a-okay in my book. I mean, maybe.

2. Speaking of annoying...this company sent me 22 emails in 5 days. I signed up for a webinar or something. 22 emails in 5 days. It's an education company. 

3. Arbonne initially did me wrong. Twice in 4 months, I've gotten the wrong free gift with my Replenish Me order. I, like many others, plan the free gift into the purchase of my recurring order and, without notification, my gift has been replaced with something I don't actually need or want. I guess they update the list of "free gifts" regularly and if your selection gets the ax, they just stuff something else in the box instead of telling you to go in and change it. This is why MLMs are hard.

So anyway, I asked if I could return the free gift I'd received and they were like no and wrote all about what I said up there ^. My consultant was apparently supposed to notify me and she definitely didn't, either time. The first time I thought it was user error on my part so I let it go. 

But I'd had a rough day and wasn't in the mood, so I wrote them back saying I understood the changes and thanked them for clarifying. But it seemed unfair to customers and I know if it happened to me twice, it happened to others. They immediately wrote back saying they were putting my original free gift in the mail to me, at no charge. This is a $110 product so that's an A+ for their customer service department. I mean, the response time, the fact that they made it right, and the fact that they seemed to care about retaining repeat business. The product is the icing on the cake. 

4. My Shark air purifier just up and died at the beginning of December. Just shot straight to 0%, wouldn't function, made me think there was some kind of gas leak in the house. Luckily, I have another air purifier with an air quality measurement on it (despite what Scott would classify as "lucky") and I could see that it wasn't the air, it was the device. 

So I spent an enormous amount of time on the phone with Shark and they said they'd put a new one in the mail, free of charge, replacing it because it was a faulty unit. It was only 7 months old and had a two year warranty. The new one would be arriving in "10 or less business days". I was kind of concerned it'd show up while we were in Pennsylvania for Christmas. While I'd put a hold on USPS, that doesn't apply to other carriers. I didn't really want a $300 air purifier sitting on our porch for a week. 

Never fear, though. They never sent it. 

I emailed them January 6th, one month later, and said "hey, I never got it" and they were like "OH right. We never sent it." 

Currently, as of January 19th, it's at a Fed Ex facility 40 minutes away. Fingers crossed, guys. 

This is my own fault. I buy things and just assume they won't break or assume I'll get what I paid for and it never quite works out. I got a crazy deal on an EdenPure plug-in the other day and I used birthday money for it. EdenPure has definitely disappointed me in the past but they make the best products when it comes to actual function

4. I sent a Stitchfix box to Colorado by mistake. They actually solved my problem immediately when I contacted them (they do have a useful chat feature for customer service issues) and sent me a new box. Unfortunately, the clothes from the first box were not the clothes in the second box and I really liked some of the clothes in the first box. :/ 

5. I wrote a whole post about it that I'll get around to publishing, but Scott had to take Jett to an animal hospital in Springfield to have him put to sleep last month. We couldn't get him into our regular vet soon enough. It was an immediate need, sadly. We had an appointment here, ready, but he wasn't going to make it to the appointment. But, we'd never even heard of this animal hospital before, and I made an appointment for same-day at 7am and Scott took him by himself. Scott said it was the best customer service experience he'd encountered, maybe ever. We got very lucky. Scott was so impressed that he took them a Panera gift card for the office staff when he went to pick up Jett's remains a few weeks later. We also received a sympathy card from their office and one from our regular vet. So, veterinarians "win" the customer service era right now for us.  

6. Lastly, I wanted some kind of anniversary ring/band for my birthday and I ended up picking one out on Kay's website. I have a ring for 10 years and I wanted this last spring for 15 years of marriage but we were busy paying for lots of dog treatments and it wasn't a priority. Scott ordered this ring at the end of December and it showed up a week later and it wasn't at all what I had seen on the site. I sent that back too. While it was a "want", not a "need", I'm back to square one. I think I'm going to go look in-store. The problem is that a lot of their rings, and especially the ones with the deals, are online.

7. Okay, never mind. LASTLY, Little Poppy Co. bows. I started this subscription for Sutton a year and a half ago and it's the only way I get bows. I don't buy hair things. Three bows just show up every month. It's definitely superfluous and fun (for me, she doesn't care yet) but I do skip months often because it's not like it's free and we do have a lot of bows that don't get worn. They don't send you a warning email that a shipment is coming. You just get the receipt saying "Thank you for spending $18 on bows!" The only way to skip is to remember to go in and skip in advance. The only way to cancel altogether is to write them an email saying you want to cancel. I can't be bothered to do that yet. And they are high-quality hair accessories. Every other brand I've ever used for her (that were gifts and whatnot) has had at least one bow break (unravel, come off the clip, etc). The Little Poppy ones are good. Just...annoying. 

January 18, 2025

Multimedia news this week.

1. We finished watching season one of Landman. It's so good. If you've been putting it off, like I have, go find it on Paramount+.

2. I tried to watch the the first episode of season 2 of Severance (Apple TV) last night but man that show is weird. I remember being SO invested at the end of season one but that was TWO years ago so I have no idea what's happening and Scott is convinced he's never seen the show after watching the 2 minute recap (we literally watched it together). 

Mark your calendars for the following. I have.

3. The Night Agent comes back next week. I think I'm going to rewatch season one this weekend (Netflix) so this doesn't happen again. 

4. And Reacher (Amazon) comes back at the end of February for fans of that. We are fans.

5. The Bachelor starts at the end of January and I've struggled the last few years but I'm going to give it a whirl. I feel like the formula has been disrupted so much lately in recent seasons and the formula is what makes it fun. 

6. We need to find a free-ish way to watch Yellowstone, season 5. Any ideas?
Between Landman, Yellowstone, and The Mayor of Kingstown, I'm CONVINCED that Taylor Sheridan is the only one out there making new and original TV these days. 

7. Huge weekend for football and then, soon, I'll start falling into my cycle of depression over the fact that football is over for the year and I'll start my countdown to Labor Day weekend. 



8. I've read a lot of good books so far this year too. You can find me on Goodreads, as I haven't made the leap to Storygraph yet. 


10. Lastly, in multimedia news:



January 14, 2025

Planner problems in the year 2025

i got this because it was plaid. that was my criteria.

I've written posts about planners before. In fact, I swore off teacher planners and then I bought one this year(!). I stopped using it around September, if anyone is wondering. Actually I do use the gradebook feature in the back because I like that it keeps everything in one place. I don't use the planner part though anymore. I use a Google Doc with a lesson plan template I made years ago. 

I thought about a Home Planner. My friend loves them. They seemed so involved to me (maybe that's what I need though?) and all the good colors were sold out when I got around to being ready to order.

The Erin Condren planners have doubled in price in the last 10 years for some reason. 

I was leaning toward a Day Designer

Last year, I got an undated Erin Condren one from Amazon and it was fine but I ended up scrapping it after about 6 months and just grabbed a calendar planner from Walmart, month by month, to get me through the rest of the year. Mostly just to write down appointments and reminders.

Over Christmas break, I had some free money from a rebate and I stacked some coupon codes and ended with up an Erin Condren planner again. It obviously wasn't cheap...they never are...but it was "free" (or, rather, it was $45). 

I still remember my first EC planner. It was $27 plus shipping so it was less than $35 altogether in 2012. Now the price is about $60 + shipping, which is insane for a planner. I did lots of research over Christmas break, which is funny considering I went back to the brand I always go back to...and they aer ALL about $60 now. 

Last year, before I got the undated Erin Condren one cheap on Amazon, I got a Passion Planner and I hated it so much that I never used it. I tried to sell it for like $10 and it was a no-go so it just sat in a drawer. 

I've tried, before you ask, to do electronic calendars. I can't handle it. I went through of period of using Google Calendar and it was fine but then I was never just *seeing* it in front of me so I was always forgetting and checking off things and pushing reminders...and I operate under two different (well, 3, but that's a long story) Google log-ins: school and personal. Scott doesn't use Google Calendar at all so we can't share a calendar the way lots of couples do, and he uses Outlook for work and basically never wants to see a calendar in front of him if he doesn't have to. He also uses an android and a regular computer (not a Mac) so we can't share an iPhone calendar. 

What kind of planner did you go with this year? 

Or, did you do what I almost did and just give up altogether? Are planners still worth it? Eh. I don't know. They still bring a silly amount of joy, you know?

(I suppose I get a kickback from this but it doesn't actually matter since I already ordered a planner this year and I don't spend money on the Erin Condren website other than maybe once a year...

But I wanted to drop this link again, if YOU still need a planner and want $10 off.)

January 13, 2025

A 23 day weekend

 ...isn't nearly long enough, right? I swear, the longer the break, the more pronounced those Sunday Scaries are. 


We have been going out in the snow.






I have wasted way too much time messing around with sourdough in the last week. I don't recommend falling down the rabbit hole. It's probably not worth it. 


This crippled the county and I really think trash pickup is delayed indefinitely at this point.


These blocks are their favorite toy. They cannot get enough. 



Some sort of chew thing

The only tree I set up this year. I keep saying "next year will be different" and that's been like 7 years now. 

Me, putting away Christmas stuff (I did do the trees in the kids' rooms) and resetting the house.

I came back and the Keurig wouldn't work. And then I tried to use our Nespresso machine (it was a Mueller) and it wouldn't work (spoiler: Scott ended up taking it apart and there was a problem with the water intake and the motor so we threw it out). And so I was using the regular coffeepot, and still am. 
The Keurig could be fixed, thankfully. There was just air in the water lines. But now I don't like the K-Cups we have so I think I will just let Scott use them up and then maybe I'll buy myself a new Nespresso machine (a different brand) for Valentine's Day. 
Long story not short. 

Everything I hauled back and unloaded from the car (including some old cookbooks I wanted to try some recipes out of). Every year, I say I'm not doing this trip again and every year...I do the trip again. 



Letting the dogs swim.

Now Wells wants a Nintendo for his birthday after playing at his aunt and uncle's house.

Sutton was not interested in Moana 2 (at all) so she spent the movie "playing" in the lobby.





This is where Scout napped on Christmas morning.



Scott's note from Santa

Santa came to Pennsylvania


Blurry action shots only






Taking the opportunity to use some playdoh because I surely don't buy it



Scott forgot the dog collars so I had to go make them new tags. I'm sure they're embarrassed to wear these after that game the other day. 


Thoroughly enjoyed the chance to eat Froot Loops in the hotel. 

I didn't take these pictures with the idea of printing them for an album or uploading them to Facebook (do people even do that anymore?) or even putting them on Instagram. Just simply documenting what we've been up to for the last month. 
(I hear it's supposed to be really cold at the beginning of this week so maybe I can squeak one more day out. Although, I'd much rather go back today, a Monday, than try to get back in a routine on a Thursday or Friday..that'd be just a babysitting service, not a real day at school.)

January 10, 2025

Friday Things, 1/10

this arrived a few days early whereas every amazon package is a week late due to weather. 
how does that work?

1. Sometimes, usually once a year, I re-read these Year of Slow-Cooking blog posts. I find it super cathartic. I highly recommend doing something like that if you need to touch grass on how out of touch the online world has become. 

2. The local book club (that I am invited to but I don't go because I can't be bothered to read rom-coms and/or don't have childcare on random Tuesday evenings) posted their next book for January: Jar of Hearts. I don't think they are the type for this book. I don't think they are fully prepared how screwed up that book is; I didn't sleep for a week. But, I don't know how to post this in the FB group of a book club I don't actually participate in. You know, tactfully. 

3. Today is my birthday and I thought about taking the day off but we're on snow day #5 this week. No complaints!

4. I ordered a planner and here's a code if you want $10 off! If you're running two weeks behind like me, because you couldn't decide on a planner...I cannot say no to plaid anything so I went back to Erin Condren. They are the only ones who make a plaid planner. And they don't even offer it anymore because the "winter" season is over. I snatched it up right after Christmas. 

5. I will say we are truly (I am truly*) enjoying Maverick these days. I was so bogged down with worry over Jett for so long that I didn't appreciate the puppy days the way I maybe should've. We miss Jett so much but it's such a relief to know he's not suffering anymore. I wish we could've done more for him (like maybe gotten 2nd and 3rd opinions last spring), but he had a really good dog life and almost 11 years wasn't a short amount of time.

*verdict is still out on Scott's opinion of Maverick after he ate a bunch of cash, destroyed his wallet, and chewed up his credit cards last week. Also he kept running away and peeing all over the place when we were in Pennsylvania. 

6. I am all for celebrating your birthday in whatever way you want to..I usually bake myself a cake or two, order some presents, etc. Do and eat whatever I want for like 48 hours. I do, however, judge you to the utmost if you make your coworkers celebrate you. I've seen a lot of that in the last few years and I think it's really childish to make people celebrate your birthday. This is the first year I haven't deactivated Facebook on my birthday in awhile....I don't like random people saying Happy Birthday? It's awkward. 


January 8, 2025

Currently in January '25

taken through the screen. i wasn't going out there.

Loving. 

3 snow days in a row. I'd love to stretch this out for a week, to be honest. I'm going to spend today getting some schoolwork done, so I guess it's not wasted time. There's nothing so delightful as to add an extra week to Christmas break in this way. 

If you're interested in deep snow day thoughts, in the current landscape of education, I sent this out this morning on Substack. 

Doing to stay warm. 

In Missouri, we have "heat pumps". I grew up with coal and oil furnaces. In Wyoming, Alaska, and Pittsburgh, we had natural gas. But in Colorado we had electric heat plus a wood stove because it didn't actually get that cold. In Wyoming, we also had a real fireplace plus a pellet stove. In Alaska, we had an electric fireplace. In Pittsburgh, we also had two real fireplaces but we didn't use them. 

But anyway, I learned real quickly in Missouri that if it gets really cold, the heat pumps can't keep up. We had a pellet stove here and it's been a lifesaver over the last two winters. It keeps the whole end of the house warm (it was an addition not accounted for in the square footage of the heat pump range). Back in 2021-2022 before we had the new HVAC hooked up, it got really cold because the pellet stove also didn't work upon move-in (shocking, I know, with the track record on this place). But Scott repaired the pellet stove and now we rely on it. We also have a whole pallet of pellets to use up this winter, left over from last year. 

Resolving

I posted some habits I've working on the other day. But my Goodreads goal for 2025 is 40 books. I'm already about 4 books in, so I'd love it if we could follow each other on that platform! (this is where I'd link to my profile but Goodreads has the least user-friendly platform around and regularly, also, stops working so..)

Organizing

I've organized and reorganized this entire house multiple times over the last few months. I struggle with the kitchen because I don't feel like I have the space in the cupboards. But really: the kids' rooms. How do you organize the rooms of small children? I'm constantly wondering where I went wrong. 

Wearing

I have not changed out of sweatpants for the last week. Tomorrow is going to be real hard if I have to go back to work. 

**I couldn't stop watching the coverage of the fires in California last night. We've lived in many types of climates/weather areas over the years. There is nothing worse than fire weather. I'm certain this is where my weather-related anxiety originated. It's horrific, what's happening in California. We should all pray for the people and pray that those responsible for failed policies are actually held accountable. 


Linking up with Jenn!


January 6, 2025

New year reflections

It wouldn't be a fresh start to a new year if all of my coffeemakers didn't stop working at once, right? 

Plus, an ice storm. Wouldn't be Missouri without miserable weather...

2024 probably wasn't great. What a downer I am. I mean, our dog passed away. We spent most of the year shuttling him to the vet, it seems. I feel like last January started off okay but with the end of winter, I got super down about the impending spring and summer. I loathe spring and summer in Missouri. I don't really like warm weather at all at this point in my life. Maybe it's the Pennsylvania in me. (Honestly, I'd move back to Pittsburgh if given the choice right now. And I really felt that when I was driving two small kids back to Missouri this week. A 3 hour trip to Pittsburgh trumps a 2 day drive to Missouri any day.)

I want to go back to work less than I ever have. If it weren't for Wells being in 1st grade and wanting him to finish the year strong, I don't know...You could probably tell by my airing of grievances that I'm just kind of over all of it. There is no good way to teach kids whose parents refuse to parent. It can't be done. And when the expectations for kids are in the basement, no amount of "start fresh! finish strong! testing is in 3 months!" can motivate me. Add in the fact that the workload placed on me is more than the workload placed on others...maybe my motivation cannot be motivated.

I'm going to just Start Fresh with the idea that I can control what I can and that's kind of it (Sutton excluded; Sutton cannot be controlled :)

Splitting the year into quarters, here's what I'm working on for the first 3 months:

1. Keep rotating my closet. Nothing unexcites me more than this. But nothing is more annoying that spending money on clothes I don't/won't wear. I did add some new pieces last month:







All from Stitchfix. 

Then, I saw a reel about buying clothes that fit who you are, not who you want to be. So I went to TJ Maxx and bought two Free People-ish sweatshirts and a pair of Calvin Klein sweatpants. 


I'm not excited to get dressed for work at all. I prefer dressing for winter so it's not the season. I'm just tired of putting on clothes at 6:30am and wearing them all day? Is that weird? That sounds weird. 

But I did get these wide leg pull-on jeans that I am thoroughly enjoying. Cannot recommend enough. I got a small and I'm 5'6". 


2.  I found a simple Bible reading plan and I've kept up with it so far. It does Old Testament + New Testament + a Psalm each day. 

3.  Three workouts a week. I'm really bad about procrastinating workouts until evening and then nothing gets done. I prefer to work out in the evening, but I think I need to do the 5:30am thing for real this year. I'm thinking maybe I can manage 3 days a week. This is what I plan on using. I discovered her when I was pregnant in 2022 but her workouts are challenging. I recommend her channel for anyone in any season! 

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I think that's good to ease into a new year. We'll see what the 2nd quarter brings. 

It is funny, as we move into 2025, to think that we’ll have been married for 16 years in May. If we move this summer, it’ll make 8 states and 9 houses in those 16 years. Orders aren't official yet, which is a big part of why I'm taking 2025 one quarter at a time. 

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What are your goals for 2025?